Friday, January 20, 2012

LOVE SERIES....

Some quotes are funny but the funny ones makes the most sense. its true we don't get married to the one we truly love(90%). its true there is that one person every boy and girl would never forget their whole life even when they are married or when the said person is dead, alive or missing.

for every guy or girl, it is advisable to ask your spouses (especially if the relationship is new) who their ex was and what led to their break-up. Love is a drug and most of us are addicts. the question is what happens when that love turns sour? by you or your patner. either ur mistake or his. to some it leads to murder, to another it leads to un-quenching hatred for the opposite sex and to others, some turn their pain to strength and channel it into the right areas of their lives, why cry over a spilt milk? it's gone already.

a guy and a gurl broke up for reasons un-known buh from all indications, the gurl was at fault. they went seperate ways(thats what i thought) the guy finds his old friend whom he liked from the very first chat they had years back. they got talking trying to catch up the lost years but realised she was in a relationship while he just got out of one.

he began reminding her how sweet the times they had and how much they both longed for each other buh never sealed the deal till they lost contact. The girl tried to talk him out of it that it was almost not necessary now that she has someone. the heat was up, the guy got emotional blaming her for not waiting for him.

that is so sick of you to say the girl replied. what if u were in a relationship and i wasn't, how would u feel if i said that to you? who knew we would find each other again after years of been apart? the guy didnt wanna mess up so he apologised and restored the happy moment again.

not long enough the guy spoke the word I LOVE YOU....this got the girl thinking. truly, she has a relationship but she isn't happy with it. the only reason she is in the relationship is because she was heart broken by the one she truly loved and wanted to move on from the heart-break and she didnt want to be single. her heart was still with her former boyfriend at such nothing her boyfriend did seemed right. All she want is happiness which she is not getting instead fights, mis-understanding and arguments was the order of the day 5times a week. Now her old time lover finds his way back to her life. she had resurrected the feeling that existed years back.

she doesnt love her boyfriend, she wants to go with this old close friend, both feelings are genuine but didnt know how to tell her boyfriend. he has tried his best trying to make me happy, giving me all i asked for. he claims am his first love and made promises which he has been fulfilling. indeed he loves me. countless times i had wanted to walk away but his tears held me back, his pleads made me stay. he loves me dearly, he does all i instruct him even at his detriment. i tried loving him but it's just fruitless.

She kept in touch with her old friend(aspiring boyfriend) but along the line. she got the shocker of her life...

she hoped to begin a relationship with her old lover till she found out that his ex girlfriend is still into him.
she saw love notes, cards and emails that she had sent within d last 24 hrs and some days back. i saw the notes, memorised the lines not to use it against him but an indept study of the heart who wrote it. she said...

IT'S NOT JUST A PHYSICAL ATTRACTION
I LOVE YOU FOR EVERY SINGLE THING YOU DO
EVERY WORD YOU SAY AND EVERY STEP YOU TAKE.
THIS IS SOMETHING THAT WILL NEVER DIE
EVERYDAY I FIGHT MY FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS
BUT I JUST CANT ANYMORE,
I'M STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU

I felt her pain, i had been in that shoe before, then it occured to me..what must have led to their break-up? even if she is at fault, she seem sorry, like this wasnt enough, i saw more...
WHEN I CAME TO YOU I HAD NOTHING
THEN YOU OFFERED ME YOUR HEART
AND I GOT EVERYTHING
I COULD FEEL YOUR SOUL WITH MINE
LIFE HAD MEANING....STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU...

I braced myself up...she seem so lovely, she seemed to have loved him, i would love to meet her, i had forgotten alot of things, i was just in love with the lines till i realised he replied this particular one...but i was suprised¬
boy: whats the meaning of this
girl: i just remebered 8years ago when we first met
boy: incase you dont know, i have your heart with me un-tampered. forget the situation/
girl: but you are breaking it
boy: i know i am but its not what you think. i'm doing this for us and only future can tell.

phew....those lines got me tired, i dont know what to believe, why would you have such a conversation with someone u call you ex? are they still in love? is there a secret between them?

As much as i want her man, i feel her pain and wish my first love's girlfriend would leave him for me. i would only be selfish and un-grateful if i stole her man. The only thing i need is to say YES to him and his mine but what happens to my boyfriend, what happens to his girlfriend, what happends to her man???

i am someone's first love
my first love is somewhere with his girlfriend
he hapens to be his ex girlfriend's first love
while i remain his first love
CLUMSY....CONFUSING!!!
INDEED, WE FIND LOVE IN HOPELESS PLACES

if i stick to my man, i will remain un-happy, if i let him go. he would find someone else or go back to his ex, if i return to my first love for any reason, he might not love me at all...

why dont i try to make things work out between i and my boyfriend?
how would he feel if he heard about all this after his effort and endless love?

two scenes in the circle of two couples. if you followed each line..you will be able to detect each problem they had and what lacked in their relationshipS...

love could be like a fire work or a log of wood..it depends on you. nuture your love life, cultivate it and be suprised how it will grow. UNDERSTANDING, LOVE AND TRUST matters alot in every relationship.
Only a love story can keep me upby 01:45AM, 14TH JAN 2012

would either of the couples marry their true love?
how many of us will?

LOVE IS THE GREATEST FEELING I EVER FELT!
THANK YOU FOR READING!!!

MY SPEECH!!!

GOOD AFTERNOON EVERYONE.

I HAVE A TOPIC BEFORE ME TO DELIVER IN LESS THAN 20MINS, TO BE MORE PRECISE 15MINS. I HAVE AN INTRESTING TOPIC WHICH SAYS ''SHOULD CHRISTIANS INVOLVE THMESELVES IN SOCIAL PROGRAMMES LIKE GULDER ULTIMATE SEARCH, NIGERIAN IDOL, GLO NAIJA SINGS, MALTINA DANCE HALL JUST TO NAME A FEW....

I WAS ABLE TO TALK TO A GOOD NUMBER OF PEOPLE AND I ASKED THEIR OPINIONS ABOUT IT. 99% TOTALLY SAW NOTHING WRONG IN IT BUT JUST TWO PEOPLE SAID IT JUST ISN'T RIGHT.

BEFORE I LET YOU KNOW WHICH SIDE AM ON...FIRSTLY I WOULD WANT TO ENLIGHTEN YOU ON WHAT THESE SOCIAL PROGRAMMES ENTAILS AND HOW IT IS CONCERN CHRISTIANS.

FIRSTLY, SOCIAL PROGRAMMES ARE PLANNED PROGRAMMES EITHER BY A COMPANY, GROUP OF PEOPLE OR BRAND. THEIR AIM IS NOTHING BUT TO SELL THEIR BRAND, I MEAN ADVERTISE THEMSELVES AND ALSO AS A SOURCE OF REVENUE. TRUST ME, BEFORE A COMPANY WOULD GIVE OUT A WHOOPING SUM OF #10MILLION NAIRA AND A POSH CAR, THEY MUST HAVE MADE MULTIPLES OF IT. A TRUE CHRISTIAN IS A ROLE MODEL TO ANY SOCEITY.

AFTER RIGOROUS THOUGHTS I CAME TO A CONCLUSION THAT CHRISTIANS SHOULDN'T BE FOUND IN ANY SETTING OF THESE SOCIAL PROGRAMES. I CAME UP WITH ALOT OF REASONS BUT I WOULD JUST MENTION A FEW.

FIRST, I WOULD ADDRESS OUR FAITH. A GREAT NUMBER OF THEM COMPROMISE THEIR FAITH BY CONFORMING THEMSELVES TO THE THINGS OF THE WORLD. THINGS THA USUALLY, THEY WOULDN'T DO OR WEAR OR SAY BUT IN THE HEAT OF THE MOMENT, THEY SELL THEMSELVES TO HUNGRY JUDGES JUST TO BOOST THEIR MARKS, THEY ARE MERE MORTALS LIKE YOU. I DON'T SEE ANY SENSE IN YOU WORKING YOURSELF SO HARD JUST TO IMPRESS A JUDGE. WHY NOT THINK ABOUT WHAT GOD WOULD THINK OF YOU? WHY SCORE SO HIGH ON A MERE MORTAL SCORE SHEET AND HAVE NO MARK AT ALL FROM GOD. SIMPLE! IT'S YOU PLEASING SOMEONE AT YOUR OWN DETRIMENT. WHY NOT BE YOURSELF....
A FRIEND OF MINE CALLED ME AND SAID... HE WAS FALLING BACK TO WRITING AND I ASKED WHAT HE HAD BEEN DOING. HE SAID HE WENT AUDITIONING FOR RAPPERS AND HE DIDN'T WIN EITHER OF THEM. HE WAS DISQUALIFIED? THEN I ASKED ''WHAT WERE YOUR FAULTS'' HE QUOTED A JUDGE...HE SAID ''YOU DON'T HAVE PUNCH LINES'' HE FELT CHEATED NOT BECAUSE HE DIDN'T WIN BUT BECAUSE HE SENSED POLITICS IN IT. THE PERSON WHO WON USED THE 'F' WORD ALL THROUGH AND I WAS SUPRRISED THAT IT'S ONLY IN NIGERIA THAT I HAVE HEARD THAT THE F' WORD IS A PUCH LINE....HE DIDN'T WANT TO CONFORM HIMSELF TO THE THINGS OF THE WORLD SO HE DECIDED TO LAY LOW AND STICK TO WRITING.

SECONDLY, IT DOESN'T BRING OUT THE BEST IN US: HOW DO I MEAN? ASSUMING THERE ARE TEN CONTENSTANTS, I SEE YOU COMPETITING WITH NINE OTHER PEOPLE BUT WE AS CHRISTIANS, WE ARE COMPETING WITH THE WORLD AT LARGE..NOW THAT'S HARDWORK. WHERE YOU DON'T HAVE LIMITS.

IT'S STRANGE? HEARING THAT CHRISTIANS ARE BEING JUDGED. WHAT HAPPENS TO THE PREACHING ABOUT JUDGING PEOPLE? MAYBE IT'S JUST MY KIND OF PERSON: I HATE BEING JUDGED THTA'S WHY I DON'T JUDGE PEOPLE. A CONTESTANT IS DOIN HER BEST (I BELIEVE) AND YOU WALK HIM OR HER AWAY FROM THE STAGE SAYING HE ORR SHE IS SINGING CRAP. I SEE JUDGES LINES CONTESTANTS UP, PUT SOME PN PROBATION, EVICT AND THEN LATER ON ANNOUNCE WINNERS> WHO ARE THEY TO JUDGE? NOT EVEN IN A COUNTRY THAT IS FREE FROM CORRUPTION. NIGERIA, A COUNTRY LEADING THE WORL'S MOST CORRUPT COUNTRY, A COUNTRY WHERE POLITICS IS THE ORDER OF THE DAY...EVERYTHING HAS POWER INVOLVED EVEN IN LOVE, WE EXPERIENCE POLITICS, ANTHICS BY OUR MEN, ANTHICS BY OUR WOMEN. GOD IS THE ULTIMATE JUDGE AND AND WHENEVER THE END SHALL COME WE SHALL ALL BE JUDGED BUT ALOT OF US SEEM TO LOVE JUDGEMENT DAY ALOT THAT WE ARE EVEN JUDGED HERE ON EARTH NY HIMAN THANKS TO OUR JUDGES...

BELIEVERS ARE KINGS AND QUEENS SEPERATED UNTO GOD: I DON'T KNOW IF THERE IS ANYONE HERE WHO HAS SEEN A PRESIDENT IN A SINGING CONTEST? HAVE YOU EVER SEEN A BIRD BRAGGING WHERE A PECOCK IS? DO KINGS CONTEST? DO QUEENS CONTEST? NO, THEY DON'T. IT'S HIGH TIME CHRISTIANS, PROJECT THEMSELVES TO THE RIGHT LEVEL GOD EXPECTS US TO BE. AS CHRISTIANS SUCH GATHERING DOESN'T GLORIFY GOD.

LASTLY, BECAUSE OF MY TIME, I WOULD LIKE US TO LOOK INTO THE LIVES OF THE PAST WINNERS. WHAT CAN WE TELL OF THEM AT THE MOMENT? ARE THEY PORTRAYING ANY SIGN OF CHRIST IN THEM? LET'S LOOK AT THE LIFE OF CHIDINMA FOR INSTANCE, I HEARD SHE'S FROM A FOURSQUARIAN FAMILY, DON'T KNOW HOW TRUE THAT IS BUT EVEN SHE IS, WHO WOULD HAVE KNOWN? THIS OTHER LADY THAT EMERGED FROM BIG BROTHER...I'M NOT SURE THERE IS ANY GOOD NEWS TO TELL ABOUT HER. DON'T GET ME WRONG, I'M NOT JUDGING HER...WE ARE JUST LOOKING AT PAST WINNERS AS ROLE MODELS.

MONEY IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL THAT IS WHAT MOST OF THIS SOCIAL PROGRAMMES IF NOT ALL PORTRAY AND THAT IS WHAT PEOPLE ARE AFTER. THE FAME , THE MONEY.

IF YOU SAY THEY ARE AFTER DREAMS. WHY DON'T THEY WAIT FOR IT TO MANIFEST IN DUE COURSE, IN GOD'S TIME.

I WILL LEAVE YOU WITH WITH THIS TO MULCH ON...
A FOREST PRODUCES TALL BEAUTIFUL TREES WHICH BLOSSOM AND THRIVE NATURALLY BUT UNFORTUNATELY, THERE IS NO ONE TO ADMIRE IT IN THE FOREST BUT SOMEDAY...SOMEHOW....SOMEONE WOULD COME FETCH FOR IT BECAUSE IT WOULD BE THE ONLY NEED REQUIRED BY MILLION.
THE MORAL: KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING
DON'T IMPRESS ANYONE, SOON ENOUGH YOU WOULD GET PICKED UP BY THE RIGHT PERSON.

THANK YOU!!!
19-01-2012
11:32PM

MY GREED!

...When i know life is a competition, when i know it's a game for the survival of the fittest, i'm aware it's not how far but how well, i also know success is a journey not a destination....tell me why i shouldn't lead the fools astray, tell me why i shouldn't be wise in my decisions and strategies? (scoffs) I came to fight, conquer and win at such I must put in my best doing my best to achieve my goals. My greatest wish is to see my dreams materialize thats why i have decided to wake up from sleep so i can pursue my dream. It's even so hard to sleep when there is so much to achieve.....

DO YOU THINK AM GREEDY? HAVE YOU EVER HEARD THE STORY OF A VICTORIOUS MAN WHO CONQUERED? HAVE YOU EVER SEEN THE TEARS OF A WIDOW, HAVE YOU FELT THE GRIEF OF A MOTHER WHO LOST HER ONLY CHILD? HAVE YOU SEEN A MAN WHO HAD SHOES WITHOUT LEGS? HAVE YOU SEEN A MAN WHO HAD EVERYTHING MONEY COULD BUY BUT COULDN'T FIND LOVE.....???? HAVE YOU..

Do you still wonder why am greedy with my dreams? Alot who couldn't see beyond their eyes have travelled far for greener pastures(like they say). I only wonder who would remain to fight corruption or correct our mistakes or is this the generation we intend leaving for our un-born? The world won't get any better if we just let it be...

Even though i fall knee deep into the trenches of life, i would re-strategize and hit the worrld by storm. We are our greatest enemy and atimes the real problems behind our problems. A change begins with whoever reflects to you in the mirror.

I'm greedy with goals because it's what and all i'm living for. Nothing is impossible, it's what you set your limits to be... so far, I have no limitations to what i can do. Little dreams driven by mild force or pull won't inspire you or motivate you...Dream big and fight till you win!!!

19-01-2012
10:32PM

WHATEVER YOU DO...DO IT FOR LOVE....

......MAYBE BECAUSE I AM TOO SENSITIVE OR IS IT BECAUSE I'M TOO ACCOMODATING? OR AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO KNOWS WHAT FRIENDSHIP IS ALL ABOUT?

YOU GIVE YOUR BEST TO PEOPLE THEY ABUSE IT
YOU LOVE THEM LIKE YOU NEVER DID BEFORE, THEY ABUSE IT
YOU SHARE ALL YOU HAVE WITH THEM, THEY AHOLD ALL THEIRS BACK
YOU ARE ALWAYS THERE FOR THEM
BUT THEY ONLY COME AROUND WHEN THEY NEED YOU...

YOU LLOK PAST ALL THESE AND STILL WANT THEM AROUND
YOU CAN'T STAY MAD AT THEM
IT'S JUST YOU, YOUR HEAR....PURE AND NATURAL
THEY HURT YOU ALL THE TIME
BUT THEY NEVER GIVE OPPORTUNITY TO SAY IT
THEY FEEL YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND
YOU ARE BEING USED

THEN TABLES TURN
YOU FINALLY FIND SOMEONE WHO KNOWS YOUR WORTH
WHO TREATS YOU RIGHT
THEN YOU WITHDRAW FROM THE OLD FRIEND
YOU NEVER KNEW FRIENDSHIP WAS THIS SWEET.
THEN THE OLD FRIEND BEGINS TO MISS YOU....
WANTING TO COME BACK...

THERE IS ALWAYS A LIMIT TO LOVE, HATRED, PRESSURE, HARSHIP. A LIMIT LIKE BEEN PUSHED TO THE WALL. ALOT OF US DON'T ARE ILLETRATED TO SOME PHASES IN LIFE BUH MISTAKENLY TO OTHERS AND FORTUNATELY FOR YOU...THEY MAKE YOU SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY. THEY SHOW YOU ALL YOU HAVE BEEN MISSING. THAT'S WHY I LOVE MY ENEMIES. THEN THERE COMES THAT DARING MOMENT YOU REALISE YOU HAD LOST SOMEONE SPECIAL, PRICELESS AND FAILTHFUL....YOU GO LOOKING FOR HIM OR HER BUH IT BECOMES TOO LATE.

APPRECIATE
BE THANKFULL
FOR ALL YOU HAVE
FRIENDS IN YOUR LIFE
PARENTS
SIBLINGS
AND THOSE WHO WAGE WAR AGAINST YOU>

YOU WILL GET TO THANK THEM LATER!!!

15-JAN-2012
12:07AM

BUSY-BODY...

She hasn't changed a bit...showing off and advertising herself. i remember that day i went to make my hair and she complained at every weave and was choosy in who should make her hair, bought everything she laid eyes on, received calls, laughed out loud and intruded in every topic.... i couldn't wait to finish my hair. we wouldnt have talked till my hair ruffle droped and she helped picked it and she began with me....its cute, whats the cost? i love the texture of your hair, what relaxer do you use??? Everyone noticed her...

Then it occured to me. One sure place to get the juices....hello, how are you? the voiced caught my attention. hi (im trying to remember the face...have sure seen it somewhere)...you don't remember me, she replied. I smiled(now looking sily)...stammering...pardon my manners, can't place where i have seen you. but my face looks familiar right? she asked (would you spare me all the questions and tell me)...sure, looking excited to see her.... you remember the lady whom you sat next to at MAKE ME!?! (O please!!!)
O! Now i remember, we both hugged. good to see you again, do you stay around? (obviously you would wanna visit someday,NO WAY) N-NO, NO I DON'T. Just came around to see a friend. OK! thats cool, she continued running her mouth...i came shoping with my fiance, that's our car over there, i sitted you and decided to say hi or would you like to say Hi to him (i giggled slowly..) i'm late for an apointment now, I'm sorry! OK, can i have your pin? sorry am not on BB, i replied sharply( Good gracious, she's using curve 1...arrgh) wat about your number 080______ thank you. i would call you..by the way you look fab. we hugged again and part ways.
t story about our boyfriends, husbands, sex styles and new slangs was THE SALON. It sure comprises of both the old women who don't admit they are old, young desperate call girls, working class mistress(ES), young innocent gurls who have the money to afford been in their midst. what a life ladies live>

she must have had a nice time because she had her likes on seat, i kept mute while i updated myself with gossips and funny lady talk, giggled alot in my mind. what a day it was...i finished my hair, paid and was acessing it and she said ''if i had your shape, i would kill alot of men with attractive cloths, would consider modelling, in short i will use what i have to get what i want'' my eyes poped, didn't wanna act novice_silly..i laughed out loud,,they continued while i stepped out...WHAT A DAY!

I snapped out of my thoughts, smiled and looked back to see her but couldnt see any trace of her...obviously, she had gone. I reached for my iphone, called my PRIVATE cab who had delayed me here for almost an hour now before i was rightly accused of knowing ....i don't even know her name.

In few minutes, Bro felix had arrived to take me back to the main campus.
JAN 15 2012
11:49PM

LOVED AND LOST

sometimes i wish i never met you because then i could go to bed at night not knowing there was someone like you out there....

i loved and lost
i thought i had found
i thought you were real
i thought you were down with me
i thought you had given me your heart to love
i thought wrong....

you said to me that you couldnt love me
from the look in your eyes,
i can see its true.
i only wish you could tell me y u cant love me
someone else must have swept ur heart away
guess my best wasnt enough!

i have loved you for so long
and i saw nothing wrong in it
i often tot we would be more than friends
but again, i thought wrong!

i am in misery
and no one can comfort me
you are all have been living for>

if only u could see the storm in my heart
that has brought rain to my face
forever in my heart
will i nurse the pain
of the one i truly love.

12:30AM
13-01-2012

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

PLEASE, DONT BE SAD!!!

Although Life feels grey
I know things are Hard
Even now that you are at your best
PLEASE DON'T BE SAD
Things will only get better....

Like dry season before rainy season,
Tomorrow will hold the happiness and sweetness
That today has forgotten to bring.
The sun will shine so bright once more
And your skies will return to blue
Without a shower of rain to spoil it for you....

Today's burden that you carry will all become history
And smiles with remain with you along your future way.

Remember other people care.,
Remember I CARE FOR YOU
Remember some people think about you
I'm one of them.
I wish you well far more than words can tell...

PLEASE DON'T BE SAD
You got a friend in me
whenever you feel lonely or dis-jointed from the world
Read this lines all over again.
I put them together ALL FOR YOU.

Please don't be sad
For i share a part of your sorrow
Be strong for you
Atimes, it's our best option....

LOVE DD

08:35PM
04-01-2011